The prewedding of An & Arian by Quoc Tran
Love in the period of love between two people is like a beautiful design drawing. When entering marriage, that drawing is no longer on paper, but forced to become a real product. Marriage is like two people cooperate to build a house in which one is an architect and one is a contractor. He comes up with the idea, she seeks to do it which means everyone has a responsibility to join hands and try to complete their own home. However it is not easy to build a house according to the wishes of two people, each person is a separate individual and each individual will have his own reasoning. Sometimes your interests are not her interests. So the arguments during the house building are inevitable. We sometimes have to argue intensely or even get stressed to find the best solution. So is marriage, there is no couple living together without disagree. But that is obvious, we should accept it. But unlike building houses, architects and contractors are just working partners, while in marriage, husband and wife are partners, but an intimate partner. Solving the conflict between two strangers is much simpler than having to reconcile the perspective of living with an “intimate” partner. Because we can change designers or contractors if we feel that it is not appropriate to achieve the final goal of completing a house like that, we can not change the couple because of the argument. It’s not because of that, we avoid the argument. In fact, it is not okay to keep compromising silently so everything is okay. If we don’t resolve thoroughly, the accumulated warmth will be a dangerous underground wave engulfing marriage. Being a partner should respect but to be a special long-term partner, you must understand each other and must accept the collision. Patience is good but arguing is not really a bad thing.